2023

We loved setting up our new home in Minneapolis, exploring a few lovely national parks, and finishing the year with a 3-month jaunt in Europe.


Twin Cities, Minnesota
Goodyear, Arizona • 2 weeks
Prescott, Arizona
Grand Canyon National Park, Arizona
Tiburon, CA • Ali only
Portland, OR • Ali only
Washington DC • Ryan only
Philadelphia, Pennsylvania • Ryan only

SPRING

Twin Cities, Minnesota • 3 months
Stillwater, Minnesota
Duluth, Minnesota
Grand Marais, Minnesota
Grand Rapids, Minnesota
Hibbing, Minnesota
Voyageurs National Park, Minnesota
Ely, Minnesota
Grand Portage, Minnesota
Isle Royale National Park, Michigan
Aurora, Colorado • Ryan only
Austin, TX • Ali only
Denver, Colorado • Ryan only

SUMMER

Lisbon, Portugal • 1 week
Sintra, Portugal
Salema, Portugal
Tavira, Portugal
Sevilla, Spain
Itálica, Spain
Merida, Spain
Salamanca, Spain
Avila, Spain
Segovia, Spain
Burgos, Spain
Navarrete, Spain
Pamplona, Spain
St-Jean-Pied-de-Port, France
Espelette, France
St-Jean-de-Luz, France
San Sebastian, Spain
Guernica, Spain

FALL

Bilbao, Spain
Cudillero, Spain
San Sebastian, Spain
Ponte Lima, Portugal
Braga, Portugal
Porto, Portugal • 1 week
Riomaggiore, Italy
Manorola, Italy
Corniglia, Italy
Florence, Italy • 2 weeks
Modena, Italy
Bologna, Italy
Pisa, Italy
Rome, Italy • 1 month
Ostia Antica, Italy
Twin Cities, Minnesota
Logan, Utah • Ryan only

WINTER

17+

Museums visited

5

Countries

3

US National Parks

Memorable moments

Making the Grand Portage

Grand Portage, MN • Home to the Grand Portage Band of Lake Superior Chippewa, commonly known as the Grand Portage Anishinaabe, or Ojibwe. This homeland is called ‘Gichi Onigaming,’ which means ‘the great carrying place.’
July 4, 2023
Written by Ali

The night of July 4th was pretty brutal. We got to Grand Portage just as it was starting to get dark. We drove to the marina behind the casino to check in, but the desk was closed. We decided to snag a spot at one of the campsites set up along a ridge just above the small harbor (we had our pick of the litter since no one else was camping there. The bathrooms were locked, so we drove over to the casino hotel to ask about our camping reservation and use the bathroom. We checked in at a desk just inside the smoky casino and saw a few other visitors checking in or getting ready for a night at the casino. 

Once back at our campsite, it was so buggy that we had to cover every inch of our skin to prevent ourselves from being bitten. We even wore  the mosquito net hats we had gotten in Ely. It was probably the most mosquitos I have ever seen. We laid out all of our backpacking items and packed for Isle Royale by the light of our headlamps. At some point, the 4th of July fireworks started going off and the scene felt even more chaotic. Buzz, slap, bang, bite, pack, slap, bang, buzz. Finally we finished our packing and finished setting up camp for the night, doing our best not to let any of the thousands of hungry mosquitos buzzing around us into the tent.

We woke at 5:30 am. I could see the water droplets from the night’s rain shimmering on top of the tent as the sun rose through them. The Grand Portage Harbor was quite, aside from a few seagulls and the distant cacophony of calm waves on Lake Superior. We quickly packed up: placing items in our Osprey backpacks like we were putting together a well-worn jigsaw puzzle.

Around 6:15 am, a man still awake from a night in the casino shuffled down the road behind the single row of exposed campsites holding a large bottle of booze. He generously offered us some, motioning to us that we could take the bottle. We declined and he continued down the road and out of sight. I wondered how often he made this little trek from the Casino home, and if anyone ever took him up on his offer. 

We shook off and dried our tent as much as we could, stashing it in the car to dry while we’re off on our adventure. At 6:30 am sharp, we drove out of the Casino property and over to the boat launch for the Grand Portage Isle Royale Ferry. We slammed come cans of Nitro coffee and checked in with Matt, a chipper man from the ferry company. We then gave our packs to Bob, another ferry employee and told him we’d get off at Windigo, the first stop. We quickly used the restroom and chatted with a few other passengers. 

I could feel a mixture of excitement, anticipation, and sleepiness in the air, as many pairs and a few small families waited for our departure time. You could tell that everyone had planned this trip for a while, contemplating what to bring, what to leave, how they’d get drinking water, if their bodies could handle it, if they’d see a moose  - just as we had been doing for the last several weeks. As they made the boarding call, I took out the binoculars and focused on a lone loon, out looking for breakfast just down the shore. The weather was clear, sunny, cool, and a bit foggy. During the short safety demonstration, Matt told us where to find life jackets, assured us they’d never had a fire or man overboard, and that we’d have a good journey. I felt comforted by this and confident that our crew could get us there safely. 

On the boat, the ride felt fast and mostly smooth. The lake was foggy and it took at while to see the Island in the distance. We are gigantic banana nut muffins and had some of the free coffee provided on board. We talked with Bob a bit, I read a book (The Unbearable Lightness of Being), and Ryan Dozed. We’re nearing our stop at Windigo now. The adventure begins!

6 days backpacking Isle Royale

We set off seeking wilderness, and found it in unseen canoe paths and fern-filled hikes. It was there in the loon calls and wolf howls, the solitude and silence, and then the loud buzzing and humming of the forest. It was there. We felt it on the ground we slept on, in the muscle aches, in the water we filtered, and the cool morning dew sliding down the walls of our tent. It was there in the eye of the fox, the slap of the beaver tail, the mysterious cracks of twigs,

and the aggressive hissing of a surprised, angry grouse. It was there. We saw it at sunrise and sunset, in daily lake plunges and slow, trickling streams, in muddy trenches and dusty footsteps, in moose tracks and piles of scat. We came across it in the deep depths of the woods, the dark stillness of a backcountry lake, and at the top of hazy hilltops with views for miles. It was there.

Tram traffic jam

Graça • Lisbon, Portugal
October 2023
written by Ali

One evening while in Lisbon, Ryan and I took Bill and Susie to the Graça neighborhood, the first place we lived when the pandemic began. We crammed onto tram 28 and set off for an evening adventure. The tram car jerked, screeched, and shifted as we climbed up the hill, causing us to bump into other passengers and each other as we gazed out the windows. I felt the Portuguese breeze flowing through the car as we flew through boisterous streets filled with music and many, many wandering tourists. The Baixa blew by in a blur, then Sé cathedral, the panoramic park with the beautiful bougainvillea, and the stop for the Santa Clara market (one of our favorite antique/flea markets). We stayed on as the tram continued up the hill, saving our legs from the steep and sweaty climb. 

We got off in the heart of Graça and headed towards the Miradouro da Graça. After jockeying for seats along the viewpoint, we opened the wine and non-alcoholic beer bottles we brought along for a sunset cheers (a true Nee family tradition). We also opened a gigantic family-size plastic jar of Lupini beans for a salty snack. The air was warm and the crowd much livelier than when Ryan and I sat in the same spot in 2020. Waiters at kiosks served ruby-red port and gleaming glasses of Sagres beer to throngs of visitors out enjoying the ambience, comfortably nestled behind the Church of Our Lady of Grace with a view of the São George Castle, 25 de April bridge, and entire city.

After finishing our little happy hour, we continued through Graça, showing Bill and Susie some of our favorite spots around the neighborhood, stopping by the doorstep of the tiny studio apartment where we spent the first 3-month lock down. After a quick photo, we continued uphill to the next viewpoint, pausing to take in the shifted view of the city from a new perspective. 

We walked a bit further to have dinner at Estamine, a one-room, two-table restaurant that Ryan and I ate when Lisbon opened up a bit during the pandemic. We visited with the owners Joyce and Luis as they cooked, the kitchen within a few feet of our table. Being back in their little restaurant felt so cozy, like visiting a distant relative who you love but don’t get to see very often. 

After a delicious dinner, we headed back to the tram stop. It was now dark, and we were all tired from a long day out in the city. When the tram arrived this time, we were all able to get seats since it wasn’t packed to the gills with people. The air was cool as we glided down the hill back towards downtown. The city had taken on a different mood, and the narrow sidewalks were mostly empty along the track. 

A few minutes into our ride, the tram came to a sudden and complete stop. We all looked up to see why we were no longer in motion. The driver pulled the door open with a thud, going outside to inspect the track. Just ahead of us, a small Audi was parked, blocking the tram’s path. The driver rolled his eyes, preparing to call in to what I assume was the Lisbon tram headquarters to report it. We waited for a few more minutes, watching everyone look around with curiosity, frustration, and amusement. Pretty soon, the lights of a tram heading in the opposite direction shone along the tracks ahead, coming towards us. The road and tracks were so narrow, that the tram couldn’t pass alongside us. We were stuck. The second tram was filled with people heading up to Graça, as we had been earlier in the evening. 

People started shifting in their seats, craning their necks to look outside at the action. A few people got off to walk, and a small crowd of men started forming around the Audi. After several more minutes, the group started scheming (in Portuguese) about moving the car themselves. They started rocking it back and forth and attempting to lift it as cheers and hollering broke out among the spectators. In this moment, no one seemed to remember where they were going or that they were late. We were all lost in the moment of the tram traffic jam, mesmerized by the simultaneous tension and stillness. 

An older woman on the tram started egging on the car-movers and tram drivers. Another woman in a home opened up her window to yell at the group. Her child was trying to sleep and this commotion was disturbing them. Suddenly, there were more characters in the story and it felt like we were extras on a movie set. Finally, the men gave up trying to move the car and a few minutes later the police arrived on the scene. No sooner had they pulled up, a bashful young man walked alongside our tram and up to the drivers side door. It was his car. People started to boo him as he unlocked the car and started to get inside. With one of the tram drivers translating for me, I learned that the older woman on the tram was calling to the policeman to arrest him. Thankfully for the Audi driver, no arrest or fine was made and after a few stern words with the officer, he quickly got in his car and drove away. 

With our path now clear, the tram drivers worked on untangling themselves and we were back on our way. This act of the play was complete and we were now free. As we breezed down the hill again, the evening air hit my face, a smile spread across it from this unexpected but exciting diversion on our way back home.

In the museum, we’re inside a beating heart,
Funneled through chambers,
Humming and teaming with life.
The people gaze, stare, point,
Seeing art and each other.
There is a pulse of light and time,
Of metal, paint, and stone.
Whispers of those who came before us,
And those who will be next.

Guggenheim Museum • Bilbao, Spain
October 26, 2023
written by Ali

Home in the Eternal City

Rome, Italy • December 2023
written by Ali

As a kid, I went to a Waldorf school, where we did plays about Nero and Demeter and Persephone, and made drawings of Greek and Roman gods and goddesses. And heard stories of their myths.

I’ll always remember that the first time I heard the word ‘charismatic’ was when we learned about Lorenzo de’ Medici.

As an art student in college, I studied Renaissance artists and Roman architecture. In many ways, these were the people and blueprints for numerous paintings and buildings to come.

Now, right in front of my eyes, I see the paint and columns and friezes and capitals and structures I’ve only known on a page or lecture hall projector screen.

In some ways, being in Italy feels like coming home.

Traveling has helped me appreciate the shear power and brute force of this empire. The blood sweat and tears of workers and slaves and gladiators who made this eternal city. The ruins of ancient baths and government halls and theaters. The infrastructure of aqueducts and bridges and fountains.

Everywhere you look, there are fingerprints and etchings and messages from those who came before us. Layers of silt and sand and marble, glued together so elegantly for thousands of years – Sometimes without any mortar at all.

So I’ll sit here and stare as the sun sets. At something so ancient and powerful. Worlds away from my place of birth, yet somehow so familiar.